But for wives who marry into the military — “muggles,” as J. K. Rowling might call them — there is a curious round of new protocols and regulations to internalize: Men are no longer referred to by first names or by “Mr.” but must be called “Colonel Weasley” or “Major Granger” …
I picked up this book on my visit to Borders this week. I’d originally gone in to find the book that the new show Army Wives is based on, but discovered that it hadn’t reached my local shop’s shelves yet. I could reserve my copy, or order one of her other books on the subject, but instead I wandered over to the military history section to see what I could find.
I found Home Fires Burning, which tells the stories of a number of “waiting wives” — those of us who are holding up the fort while our spouses are away doing interesting things with interesting people. Ms. Houppert, a journalist and former military brat, profiled a variety of military families, and I found the tales compelling and the author’s writing style very engaging.
And she made an apropos Harry Potter reference, which is worth bonus points in my estimation.
Home Fires Burning: Married to the Military — for Better or Worse. Houppert, Karen. March 2005. 272p. Ballantine, hardcover. ISBN 0-345-46169-X.